THE IDEA OF COMMITTING SUICIDE..!

Manier times i've heard sentences like
'I will commit suicide, I can't tolerate any more.. ' ,
'ye log to meri jaan le lenge ... ',
'iss se atchha ki meri maut aa jaye..' from various people from various places. I am feeling grateful and happy that I never got such idea. Probably, I ws not surrounded with too many problems or Do I have a +ve attitude that's why ? I dnt know exactly what may be reason for this. I'm sure that i'll never get such idea too.

The very first factor which I belive for the people who commits suicide is
these are the people who are highly troubled or stressed (most of them just have false assumptions that they only possess all the problems of the world or nobody else is living such miserable life like they are living...). Damn sure that most of you will agree to above line.

But, in a world of more than 6 billion population, there is certainly a person who is living a life similar to yours and he has found ways to tackle the similar circumstances you've or trying to tackle them with atleast +ve attitute. out of 100 persons (with idea of suicide), more than 70% have so called virtual issues and they like to keep themselves surrounded by problems. Rest of them does have some genuine matters which adds complexities in life.

Yes, Many of us - including me - do believe that problems are nothing but punishments of earlier crimes/sins. Well, if we know this as a fact, we should keep our-selves sin-less. Although, practicing a crime-free life is too difficult , its do-able.

However, DEATH BY SUICIDE DOES NOT SOLVE THE PROBLEMS OF LIFE. Almost all the problems remain as is. Further, more problems get added on heads of near and dear ones - this does include those whom you loved all your life. It is the worst form of running away. No matter how many problems one has, or how much stressed he/she is, or even in cases when you feel your head will burst due to un-expected things, one should not think of dying. Here, I would like to add a famous quote which goes something like this : 'THIS TOO SHALL PASS' ( indicating that all material conditions, positive or negative, are temporary) . If good time does not lasts for a long, so does the bad time.

The another reason Ii feel one should not commit suicide is , GOD ALMIGHTY has given us a beutiful life to live. Moreover, if GOD had decided about our death, then we would have died much earlier. So, if the GOD wants us to live during our bad times then we don't have a 1% right to make such a sinnery choice. Yeah! Yeah! I know you'll counter-argument that death by suicide is also a decision from GOD. But, of one's destiny there is little part given to him/her to make choice by one-self.


In a nut-shell, practice a life with pure thots, have a rock-solid +Ve attitude, face the probs, keep you mind cool and see how better your life becomes!!!

cheers frm
samir